And If you haven't lost, well, then you don't know what loss is, and if you haven't lost really big, over and over, and sometimes over again, well you just don't know what it feels like, and you may take it for granted, if you get it without, REALLY desevering it, I think being able to deserve it, and having earned the right to DESERVE it, is really important, and it has something to do with values, and I can't quite explain it, but the Values thing is a big issue with me, and I can't emphasize that enough,,,,,, |