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Pastimes : Let's Talk About Our Feelings!!!
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To: James R. Barrett who wrote (18434)3/14/1998 9:15:00 PM
From: anthic p, moorphro   of 108807
 
You are terribly confused James. There is a difference between being able to have sex with someone of the same sex and wishing to have sex with someone of the same sex to the exclusion of the opposite sex. Many men in prison who consider themselves heterosexual have sex with other men, but return to women when they get out. Those men are probably fantasizing about women while they have sex with men. Homosexuals sometimes can have sex with women, sometimes they marry women, but they fantasize primarily about men.

The nature of our fantasies, the fixation of our sexual identity and the objects of our sexual passions, is probably not a choice. What does is matter if the lesbian and the gay man have sex? She is probably thinking of women and he is thinking of men. If they are really homosexual the stimulus for their arousal wouldn't change.

You probably consider yourself heterosexual. Say you are locked up in prison with Bruno, who wants you for his honey. Are you going to be thinking of Bruno or the little woman back home when you have your after bed check sex? Does the fact that Bruno does you make you a homosexual? I would say no. Not even if you get to like it, unless you start to fantasize about Bruno. Then I would have to say you were a latent homosexual anyway.
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