I didn't think you were hiding anything, just that maybe you were tired of or uncomfortable with discussing things that get too personal. If you prefer not to answer some of these questions, feel free just to say so.
But since you invite, I am curious: you mentioned a son and daughter, both as I take it actively homosexual. ("Pure" homosexual, or bisexual?) Do you have other children? Are they homosexual, heterosexual, or not sure yet? What ages are your children? At what ages did they first sense that they were more interested in the same than the other sex, at what age did they decide definitively that they were homosexual, and at what age did they "come out"?
You mentioned your wife, so I gather you are currently married. Is your family a traditional nuclear family, or are one or both of you stepparents?
Are there any other homosexuals that you know of in your or your wife's immediate family?
These are not idle curiosity, and not in any way an attempt to "find blame" anywhere, even if I that were appropriate (which I don't; it's a concept that shouldn't enter in to the situation), but an attempt to understand more about the background here. But again, feel free to say if you think I'm getting too pushy in what I'm asking. |
