Penni, I think what MSB means by his statement about love is that while we are seeking those who are our fantasies of the perfect love, sometimes actual attainable people in the real world, people who are more on our level, not love gods and goddesses, find us, and we surrender some of our idealized dreams of love as we fall in realistic, everyday love with the ones who have welcomed us and love us back and accept us as the imperfect beings we are.
And this can still be way cool!! Although unfortunately, sometimes it doesn't work at all, and we are again left alone, with incredible loss and only our fantasies/dreams! (Sorry, this last little comment is the opinion of the editor only, and is not intended to disillusion those of you who are happy in love.)
Is that what you meant, MSB, or am I misunderstanding you?
Christine |
