steve, The file you are looking for is call "AIM.exe" Follow the directions below and you will find this file, it's not in the "programs startup menu" but in another start menu hidden away. snerd gave me the information as follows;
Doug... Sometimes I make it harder than it has to be. There's an easier way to do what I described earlier. There's a little known tool in '98 that makes managing the startup programs really easy. Go to start, programs, accessories, system tools, system information. When that comes up, look on the menu bar for "tools", then "system configuration utility". When that comes up, go to the "startup" tab. This will show you everything that runs at startup. Simply "uncheck" anything you don't want to run at startup, then reboot when it asks. Good Luck, Doug |