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Politics : Sharks in the Septic Tank

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To: The Philosopher who wrote (20806)8/7/2001 11:46:03 AM
From: TimF   of 82486
 
Chris, if we assume your point that 17 year olds do not have parts of their brain developed enough to make good decisions about sex, then we still have to deal with Steve's point, that they are making these decisions. The decision may be to follow whatever their parents say but that is still a decision. They will be in situations when their parents are not around. Even if the parents have previously told them that they should not be having sex, they still at that moment have to decide if they are going to listen or not. Ready or not the decision will be in front of them. If the parents have done a good job then they may make a good decision.

If you disagree that's fine we can talk about this disagreement. If you don't understand I'm not sure how I can explain it better. I think you might be right about teenagers brains not being fully developed and even though I am not sure about this I am willing to accept it for the purposes of this discussion because 1 - You seem to have researched this are more then I have, 2 - It is not a crazy or stupid idea, 3 - Accepting it will help the discussion move along. But after accepting this fact we still have to think about how to apply this knowledge to real world situations. I have no kids but if I do have a kid sometimes in the future this issue will presumably come up. Should I, in your opinion, tell my future teenager "your brain is not ready so let me make these decisions for you"? I don't think that that strategy is likely to work. I think that I should try to teach my moral values to any future child I have, and also teach him or her about the risks of sex, but how can I really make the decisions for my future child? At some point they will not be under my direct control and that point I can't control them even if I want to.

Tim
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