Ah Rebel,
I like your saying about the kid, thats good.
You see I did answer your question. Its all there, everything you need to know. I even answered the question that will come after the first question.
Without trying to be a bore and with no offense, I will restate.
The surest and best way to "win" someone is to give up. This is the best path and will produce the highest potential return. Why?
People want what they cannot have. You will never win the love of anyone who's love is worth winning by outdoing, outloving, outperforming, whatever. It just does not work that way. Actually it works the opposite of your intentions as the person begins to question the worth of the one doing the "things".
The path is simple, withdrawal completely and make them come after you. Don't think it will work? Well it costs you nothing to try it for 30 days. Then if it does not work then pull out all the stops. Trust me it will get the job done.
Ask yourself, is someone really worth the energy and more important, are they worthy of winning you, if they want or enjoy a horserace?
Like I said, the grass is not greener and the person who thinks it is, is probably not ready for a real adult relationship, or is just not they type of person who wants that. Now if Melrose is what you want then posturing will work.
Just be you, don't give yourself away and you will get what you want.
If I knew if you were a man or a women I could offer more. I have read some of your posts and I don't know.
Wits and cleverness are for making money and people laugh.
The more you chase the more they run. I have followed these rules all but one time, and they have worked all but one time.
matt |
