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Well, yes, Freddy, I guess he did. For those of you who are so far gone you can't even do a little clicking around, I did, and the four feelings mentioned in that post behind the http appear to be sex, gluttony, greed and tinkering. Well, Freddy, that would be an entirely male sort of thinking. Women are a little more complicated, I'm afraid. They don't mind hanging out in the kitchen cooking something aromatic and nurturing for a man to eat while he tinkers in the basement or something, and greed can be a potent force for good in the family finances if it's the raw adrenalin of day trading or something, not hurting or trampling other people to get your way. I don't know about gluttony, but after you're finished tinkering and you're going to eat what she cooked for you, enthusiasm is certainly in order. But women want joy, sensitive feelings, romance--more complicated feelings--all mixed up in sex. They want to know you want them totally, not in a distracted way, not during half-time of some stupid football game on tv, but on a deserted beach somewhere under the moonlight, starting out with laughing, holding hands, maybe some really close dancing while someone sings, barefoot. They want their faces caressed softly, they want to run their fingers through your hair, and then once they are sure it's as romantic for you as it is for them, they become much closer to men in their feelings, they want it really rough, loud, hard, and I guess the only difference in the chemistry at that point is that their energy comes from totally trusting you and giving in to whatever you want or need from them, because your energy is male, aggressive, and theirs is feminine, receptive, surrendering to yours, being totally filled up with you. |
