Poet, to you and all the minority of nice feminine northern women, my anger and chagrin and revulsion was certainly not directed at you
over the last 20 years my life and times living in Boston has left me with a terrible view toward 80% of northern women... I have seen aggression, ambition, impoliteness, disdain for gentlemanly behavior, controlling tactics, emasculating attempts, and lesbian abnormalities in pocket areas... the results are simply sad and pathetic... families have been broken, children split from parents, relationship totally distorted, spineless men produced, and more
to be sure, men have been responsible for some of these consequences... I have seen men cheating on wives, loving their bottles more than their wives, diverting to golf more than their families, and hiding their spines for fear of being slammed... have seen some of each with one or two close friends
but my comments are focused upon a northern attitude that seems more concentrated on control and aggression that strikes at the heart of being a woman... in no way am I saying a woman should be led by the nose or dragged by the hair... dont get me wrong... nor am I saying a woman should not pursue a career... I have just HAD IT with women who appear in my humble view to be walking the earth unhappy with being a woman, who are doing their dead level best to grow testicles where they dont belong... in the process their female persona is totally lost... the epitome of that anomaly is the butch woman, of which Boston boasts far too much of its share
the ultimately sad irony (seen all too often) is that after an aggressive controlling woman is finished spending her newfound testosterone, she then disrespects the man she helped to emasculate... then they leave... I call this the "American Women Disease" but it is really a northern phenomenon, an offshoot of the Women's Liberation Movement... heard all the counter-arguments like the man was spineless before she started affecting him... to which I reply "why did you marry him?"
not a simple problem, no simple solutions
I am beginning to get used to being called "baby doll" by southern women
sure beats "asshole" by northern women
PoetGirl, you are all girl
but you know damned well what I am talking about
/ Jim |
