EVERY WOMAN SHOULD HAVE... > > ...one old love she can imagine going back to.. and one who reminds her > how far she has come... > > ...enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own... even if she never wants to and needs to... > > ...something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams wants to > see her in an hour... > > ...a youth she's content to leave behind... > > ...a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age... > > ...the realization that she is actually going to have an old age and some money set aside to fund it... > > ...a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra... > > ...one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry... > > ...a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family... > > ...eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored.. > > ...a resume that is not even slightest bit padded... > > ...a feeling of control over her destiny... > > ... a skin care regimen, an exercise routine, and a plan for dealing with those few other facets of life that don't get better after 30... > > ... a solid start on a satisfying career, a satisfying relationship, and all those other facets of life that do get better after 30... > > EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... > > ...how to fall in love without losing herself... > > ...how she feels about having kids... > > ...how to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship... > > ...when to try harder... and when to walk away... > > ...how to have a good time at a party she'd never choose to attend... > > ...how to ask for what she wants in a way that makes it most likely she'll get it... > > ...that she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents... > > ...that her childhood may not have been perfect... but its over... > > ...what she would and wouldn't do for love or more... > > ...how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it... > > ...whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it personally... > > ...where to go... be it to her best friend's kitchen table... or a charming inn in the woods... when her soul needs soothing... > > ...what she can and can't accomplish in a day... a month... and a year... |