So it angered you.
I just found it in my file, and reread it.
To characterize that as an "attack" on you that justifies violating my personal privacy, and I do mean privacy, is amazing. It was virtually all about the intimate details of the life of a third party and about me and my family dynamic -- my childhood, mainly, and how it triggered inordinate distress at something you had done. A small fraction was about your actions. I could count lines. Largely, it was a cri de coeur, because I was so distressed, for reasons N helped me understand and I conveyed to penni, and you, about what you had done. I was surely a fool to share those insights with you.
So you believe that because a fraction of a long post containing mostly intimate details about a third party's life and about my life, childhood, and background was about you, angered you, that post is fair game for you to paste to anyone you want?
And you are congratulating yourself for not sending it you your best friend -- though maybe you did, you say, and have told many people about it, though, you say, "I still didn't post it around town." Well, thanks for not posting it around town. I guess.
You did post it to Poet. And maybe to your best friend. I wonder how many more.
You may have not liked the part that was about you, but do you think that gave you a right to post a private, very personal PM of mine to you?
It was a calumny that I wouldn't stop contacting you. There was a logistical situation being managed and you were part of it. That you have told "lots of people" that you were "creeped out" by my refusal to stop "contacting you," and warning them not to give out their email addesses is vicious. How many emails or PM's from me are at issue that were unwelcome? Two? Three? Not more. How many?
Sorry I used Rambi's first name, btw. I know how much it shocked you even though it's routinely used on her thread, including by her.
You engaged in a profound violation of my personal privacy and are reacting like a cornered dog, and are ashamed, and are defending yourself by saying vicious things. But they aren't any defense. They are just snarling and barking.
Never, ever talk about confidentiality or respect for privacy. NEVER. |
