Well, this is still quite interesting!!! You have dragged me away from my own thread because there are too many feelings over there for you to handle, I think! Now you can't even respond to what I thought was a pretty sensitive and complimentary opinion of you without absconding with me. I'm no 8 foot gogo girl, John!! Not the stick figure kind of sex object you wish would stick around over here. But I'm quite comfortable with my thoughts, so I can hang out over here quite awhile, I think.
No matter what you say, John, you're hiding behind something!!! Women are intuitive about some things, and I think you have a lot of feelings but they are sad, lonely, frustrated ones, and so you have thrown your energy heavily into abstract thought to distract yourself. Why is it so hard to understand that a balance of thoughts and feelings makes for a healthy and happy life? You've said yourself your thread is barren, although you seem to be ambivalent whether this is a natural and good thing, or forebodes disaster in the future. How do you feel about that right now??
You'd get a lot more real women knocking around if you were more open. I read your last 100 posts because I like ideas, but it is so dry over here that my head is starting to hurt. Since we are in such total disagreement, perhaps we should talk at Ariel, where we seem to get along much better!!
Anyway, I know there is an interesting and vulnerable guy hanging out under the John Galt part of your character!!! Why don't you want anyone to like you?? Maybe you are bitter, or fearful of rejection.
And I think that is also where the arrogance comes from!!!! Come back to feelings for a complete makeover!! I care!!!
Christine |
