Well, when you wrote 'There's a difference between them "acting improperly" and you being "wronged."' I read that as your saying that they did do something improper.
I'm sorry if I misunderstood.
Whether or not you were, in fact, wronged, I was merely suggesting that it would not be in your best interest to press the matter. It only makes you less sympathetic.
I'm not tryiing to press that issue as an independent position. I'm only suggesting that if a resolution to this need to include some admissions of improper behavior, it should include all of the related and interlocking improper behaviors. Which you know well by now is my position, so I don't restate it for its own sake, but to clarify why I use that terminology at all.
Did you notice, btw, yet another poster trying to diagnose mental illness on the basis of the postings here? Pretty sad, IMO. And another thing which, if not strictly improper behavior, is certainly stupid. |