| I can't think of one either. While children DO taunt each other, for all kinds of reasons, I don't think it is ever a good idea to buy into it. Adults need to shut that sort of thing down, because there are always better ways of handling disputes. As an adult it is never a good idea to start screaming names at another adult simply because you disagree with them about something, or have a problem with them. We, adults, need to make sure that children grow up to meet a standard higher than just the gut reaction of a wounded or offended child- which is never very careful, or logical- it is usually just a primal impulse about fairness or justice as seen through the eyes of the child's ego- which has little conception/empathy of the ego's of others. While it may feel good or right to a child, and to adults who react like children, it is not the way most of us would like to live in society. Restraint is a part of empathy- since if we can stop, and wait before we react, we can imagine to ourselves reasons why a person might act in a way we do not like, that are not necessarily all that personal to ourselves. Empathy often requires a bit of thought, and in teaching children to stop, before they hurl abuse, we help them on the path to being more caring human beings. Of course some people might not want to be more caring, but I'm not sure I really want to listen to their arguments. |
