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Pastimes : Let's Talk About Our Feelings!!!

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To: Bob Lao-Tse who wrote (43109)7/2/1999 6:34:00 PM
From: jbe  Read Replies (3) of 108807
 
Here comes the old fogey again.

I don't think that most adolescents in our society -- especially adolescents as young as thirteen -- have the emotional maturity to handle what inevitably will be transient sexual relationships, even "sincere" and "caring" ones.

Furthermore, I think you will find that a lot of them agree. Girls, in particular, often feel pressured into sexual relationships before they are ready.

And remember something else, something I haven't seen discussed here. And that is that girls usually aren't as physiologically ready for sex as boys are. They don't have wet dreams, or wake up in the morning with erections. They don't feel the constant urge to poke "it" into any orifice they see...Girls generally need a little...um...practice before they get really libidinous.

So I say, let them wait a bit before they begin practicing, if they can. I know of too many very young women who can no longer even remember how many men they have slept with. You can get jaded awfully fast, that way.

And sometimes anticipation is so much better than the reality! That's what the romantics understood...

Joan the Dinosaur :-)
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