Well, jp, the guys may still be backward. But don't you think that the attitudes of society in general have softened? There was a time, when in many communities, girls were cut off by their families, and their friends, and their Church, etc., for behavior that nowadays would simply pass unnoticed.
Besides, I think it is risky to sleep with someone on the first date, anyway. Risky in the sense that you don't know whether he is an oaf or not. And if he proves to be an oaf, well, you asked for it, so to speak. |
