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Politics : PRESIDENT GEORGE W. BUSH

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To: Neocon who wrote (3587)8/20/1999 9:13:00 AM
From: mark silvers  Read Replies (2) of 769670
 
Neo

<<. Just as we take a shower to be clean, we smile and nod out of mere politeness, or choke down our anger for the long term good of a relationship......>>

Well, if the smile or nod is done because you have learned it is pleasing, and it happens automatically, then that is a sincere rection.

As far as repressing anger, why is that good? Why make the assumption that you can't communicate anger in a way that is not threatening or overbearing? If I am having a problem with someone because an action of mine has created anger, it is better in the long run to be aware of it then to ignore the problem. why let anger fester? what good does that do?
The optimum situation would be to be able to get to the bottom of the situation in a manner that allows you to express your anger without causing any hurt feelings.

Mark
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