You seem to win - if this were a two-valued orientation contest.
You concretely say, "In retrospect, I regret pushing away my "baby" brother when he wanted to talk about us as a family, and I wanted to think of myself as an individual."
It seems this action led to no harm.
On the contrary, I often had the ten hands of a five personed young family stacked alternatingly one upon the other - saying, 'we are one.'
This action, the opposite of yours, has led to chaos and alienation. (I even did an allegorical piece on the I's and the We's - and how the I's tromped the We's.)
These actions led to no good.
So, it seems, the slogan, for all of us should be "F You!"
Despite an effort to see this as a new realization, I see it as a horror.
I appreciate your correspondance with me containg very few, if any, capitalized concepts. In that scene, I am without a tongue - or a mind. |