Afternoon Bill,
I don't know if this has been aired on your thread before but I just recieved it and thought it might be appropriate for relating some thoughts of Erma Bombeck.
IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER >> Note:Erma Bombeck needed an organ transplant, and even though >> she could have been moved to the head of the waiting list, due to >> her prominence and wealth (like Mickey Mantle), she refused to do >> such, and subsequently, died from organ failure. >> >> IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - by Erma Bombeck >> >> I would have talked less and listened more. >> >> I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the >> carpet was stained, or the sofa faded. >> >> I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and >> worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light >>a fire in the fireplace. >> >> I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather >> ramble about his youth. >> >> I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a >> summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed. >> >> I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose >>before it melted in storage. >> >> I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried >> about grass stains. >> >> I would have cried and laughed less while watching television-and >> more while watching life. >> >> I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my >> husband. >> >> I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the >> earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.
>> >> I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, >> wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime. >> >> Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every >>moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only
>>chance in life to assist God in a miracle. >> >> When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, >> "Later. Now go get washed up for dinner." >> >> There would have been more "I love you's".. more "I'm sorry's"... >> but mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute...look >>at it and really see it ... live it...and never give it back. >> >> Stop sweating the small stuff. Don't worry about who doesn't like >> you, who has more, or who's doing what. >> >> Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who >> DO love us. Let's think about what God HAS blessed us > with. >> >> And what we are doing each day to promote ourselves mentally, >> physically, emotionally, as well as spiritually. Life is too short to >>let it pass you by. >> >> We only have one shot at this and then it's gone. >> |