It's only natural to want to be desired by men. It ensures the passing on of the genes. That doesn't mean it's unnatural to NOT want to be desired by men, but I don't think that the women who DON'T want to be desired by men should criticize the ones who do, and vice versa. It seems to me, at least, true beyond peradventure that what a man wants is what he wants, and nothing that you or I or anyone else in the world says can change that. Nubile women aren't the worst thing a man can want. I'd criticize a man for being turned on by little girls, little boys, animals, corpses, inanimate objects, rape, murder, torture, fraud, sadistic mind-games, verbal abuse, and so on.
I would NOT criticize a man for being attractive to nubile young women.
I would prefer it if my spouse didn't comment on the fact, and he doesn't, and I would prefer it if he remained loyal to me through the thickening of my waist and the thinning of my hair, and he has. |
