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Pastimes : Don't Ask Rambi

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To: George S. Montgomery who wrote (53679)7/22/2000 6:46:40 PM
From: epicure  Read Replies (1) of 71178
 
Well let's see. I don't want anything from you and you don't want anything from me- that makes it easier to avoid kissing up on either side.

If you want to meet people, in 3d, you really need to make them comfortable. People want to be with people they are at ease with. ESPECIALLY when there is already a bit of fear because you are already dealing with an unknown when you start with a personal ad. I'm afraid making people comfortable will always involve kissing up if you have an original mind. I rarely agree with people but I don't DISAGREE with them in 3d. Why make my life tough? And these women- whom I assume you might like to meet in 3d- don't want to start off in disagreement before they even meet you.

I don't think it's ever too late to change. It's a question of how much you WANT to. You're a bright guy- you could copy a successful social strategy if you wanted one. You need to weight the pros and cons and decide for yourself what you really really want.
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