I have to be truthful with you. It sickens me to see people use terms of value without regard to their essential quality. It nullifies the real meanings. You use "forgiveness" this way.
You said.
"Forgiveness" means reaching out on a moment by moment basis with no judgement, but with the energy that's an expression of love. We each have the power to validate the unlimited, unconditional value of others through acts of kindness and forgiveness.
Explain to me what it is that you forgive, that you have not judged to be bad, evil, wrong, etc.
You can reach out with compassion, charity, tolerance and understanding, in a kind manner, without conditions. That is admirable, but it has no context in forgiveness. Unless you have something (the context) to forgive ... there is no forgiveness. Unless the object (the person you want to forgive) is in on the deal, forgiveness has no application or value. You may as well just run around saying, "I am good and you are not." Over and over and over again.
Bottom line here is that if you are going to use an important word like this, STOP and consider its importance. It is insulting to listen to someone tell how forgiving and loving they are while they discount meaningfulness and the important essential aspects of such words. |
