You know, YOU forgiving YOURSELF, really has nothing to do with US. In fact it makes you even more annoying. If you were, for example, a mugger, and you said I forgive MYSELF for mugging you, would it make us feel any better about being mugged? No.
Forgiving yourself for antisocial behavior is merely more antisocial behavior. You are (to use a psychobabble phrase which you may understand) giving yourself permission to be antisocial. You are marked by behavior very distant from the norm here- AND most of us would consider you someone we would NOT want to socialize with- hence I do believe you ARE antisocial. Now, you have made me feel a great solidarity with JBE and Steve Rogers and quite a few others, who seem to find you equally antisocial. So in that sense you have added to my level of social comfort here, and increased the general sociability. But YOU are still antisocial, even if your presence causes greater sociability in your detractors. YOU may not think you are antisocial- but if you think about it, if you read the posts here, I think even you will see how deviant from the norm you are- and since society and social conduct is defined by the norm I think that even you must concede that you are not the norm. Now you may not see how you are "anti" the norm, but where ever you provoke a large section of a group I think that can be inferred.
I am frequently antisocial myself- but I KNOW that I am antisocial. Something I do not think you realize. And WHY on earth would I bother to forgive myself for it? |
