<<So, it doesn't matter to me WHY Greg is nice to people, it only matters that he IS nice to
people and that he has a mechanism in his philosophy that KEEPS him being nice to people>>
I feel just the same about that. It's really the most important thing.
You know when people make lists of their highest priority desires in a mate, and they're always things like "tall, blue eyes, into sports, music and walks on the beach," or, in the case of upscale lists, "intelligent, good sense of humor, likes classical music, non-smoker"?
I've never seen the most important requirement on those lists: "Must be a nice person." |
