i never said you should NOT post anything you wish.
i simply requested for you to reconsider. i clearly see i failed. for that i am sorry, but there is nothing i can do. only you can change that. i can not "force" you.
in re: the PM. once again you are mistaken.
i do not want to elaborate, other than:
if the sign at the door clearly says, please don't argue here since you can take it elsewhere. in spite of that, you decide to go on a provocative ride, you can not expect to be treated kindly and then, when the hammer comes out, cry foul, after a clear warning.
i will admit that i do not agree with that rule, but it is their thread and their rule. it is like their "home", in a way. therefore, either i respect it or else i don't go there. if i go and brake their rule, i can not cry about being "told off". i had fair warning.
I'm not here to live up to anyone else's expectations of what I should and should not say, no one here is my judge, I enjoy a meaningful discussion on many topics...<g> if someone finds my comments upsetting, it certainly is not intended, but people can do what they want to do.....
clearly i was mistaken, and no i was not trying to be "a judge".
even giving you the benefit of the doubt, an insult to herself and her family, was not warranted. and THAT was my point and objective.
not so much whether you were "unjustly" purged from their locale or not. to me that is a rather childish issue.
again, clearly, i failed and i was wrong about my own impression. i won't bother you again. the unfortunate thing, (as it is so in many similar instances), is due to miscommunication/misunderstanding and a tad about ego.
this reminds me of the time i told a group of conservatives that they could pray in their homes, their churches, even in their own heads. not necessarily having to force others who were non-believers to having to listen to their prayers.
their response:
i was a communist, a drug dealer, a derelict and a degenerate.
LOL me ?... a communist and drug dealer, etc... simply amazing.
oh well. i tried and enough said i guess. we have beaten this horse to death. |
