Sugar, Alexa, and Skipper,
I just managed to spend too much time composing a response that I got disconected. So here is the short version:
Thank you for your responses. You're right, Skipper, I am emotionally attached to S.J. even at times feeling tears coming to my eyes when I think about our future together ending if she should pass before me. Talk about embarassing. But I tend to think her's is more of a day to day thing while mine for her I tend to take for granted.
With all due respect to the physical part of a union, I would be willing to bet Alexa that your husband was dead for awhile when you first got together or when it was decided that there was going to be a life-long thing happening. I certainly felt that at one time. Which begs the question, What or why have things changed?
I wrote the "WHY ME" piece based upon an experience I once had. It was a convience relationship in which I felt that the perameters were understood. I believe the other's feelings evolved so I can certainly draw from that experience to explain without detail why I have on occasion felt guilty for being with versus without(hope you can pick up on that)
The film. I had a tendency to relate very well to Malesh. So on an emotional basis that also lends itself to the original question/statement.
What character did you, if at all, identify with? And what other impressions did you draw from the film?
Yes, this is the short version. Incidentally: sometimes guilty, not to be confused with frequently.
Enjoying
Mike
One of my favorite lines was said by the character Rose,"When you bore a man, you cannot go back and unbore him."
Sugar, would you please explain to me in further detail how love is lust? |
