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Politics : Sharks in the Septic Tank

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To: bonnuss_in_austin who wrote ()7/31/2001 5:02:03 PM
From: epicure  Read Replies (1) of 82486
 
Satisfaction in a sexual relationship is a difficult thing to know for certain. I spent a summer working with disadvantaged college students trying to build up there study skills. I had been married very young, so I didn't have the experiences these girls had had, and it was very interesting to listen to them. They were a diverse group, but the interesting thing they had in common was that they were universally unhappy with what was sexually available to them on campus. They seemed to feel that wham bam thank you mam sportf*cking was the rule, and that the "men" (I use this term loosely) on campus believed they were actually satisfying the women they "nailed." Oddly enough when I was on the Associated Students Board of Directors I heard roughly the same thing from the sorority girls. So it must have been a fairly universal phenomenon. It's one I see in the movies a lot- so maybe it's the rule, I don't know.

We have talked a bit about getting "experience" before marriage, and sportf*cking (imo) gives no one beneficial experience. Guys learn how to be really crappy sex partners and girls, if they are smart, learn to be lesbians. So when we talk about sexual experiences, we probably want to make clear we mean quality sexual experiences. Although I don't know about experience, myself. I can't imagine meeting more than 3 or 4 people in a lifetime that would be decent sex partners. And the odds of meeting more than one of those people before you are 20? I don't know. Slim odds, I would think. But on the other hand I wouldn't want people getting married simply out of lust either.
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