| By the way, my wife was stalked and harassed, literally, in real space, for awhile. It was her ex- husband (she got married as a teenager, and divorced in her early 20s). I protected her, of course, but I also consented to speak to him from time to time, and ultimately I convinced him that his behavior was futile and counter- productive. Nowadays, it is not unusual for us to have dinner with him when he is in the area. Thus, in my experience, this all seems trivial (although I cannot know for sure what went on by PM), and conflicts are resolvable, if not always, at least sometimes, through efforts like mine......... |