Two:
There is a mental or ethical dead spot, or a very twisted one, reveal in your inability to comprehend what CH has done here, and demonstrated himself to be, in spite of many attempts, a number of them by me, both publicly an in PM, to help him out of his situation.
At least I hope it's an inability to comprehend. Otherwise, it's a worse thing. You are now defending him explicitly instead of just by playing kissy-face.
X, CH is not the victim. Your identification with him, and blindness (I hope) to his evil behavior, is a serious thing (but fortunately not my life-problem.)
Do you know how bizarre it is that you think 3 emails (seen by no one else) from a former (female) friend with whom you'd emailed before is "coming after [you] in 3D" and therefore deserves a threat of bad 3D consequences designed to imply a lawsuit --
But!....
when it's not you, but a different female, who is the victim over many weeks of many dozens of persecutory, slanderous, salacious, threatening, sadistic public posts from a male on SI and on another public site where he posted even on her own thread...
Well, you
identify
with him and ally with him against his victim(s)!
That isn't from logic, it's from psyche. You're a tender plant where your own emotions are concerned. But those of other females, when the gross abuser is a male? |
