I am curious as to how we are able to convince you that we are (or they are) having it together
More the absence of telltale signs of not having it together than a positive presence of anything. Men who take things personally or easily lose their temper or are defensive, who are dismissive of underlings or service people, who need to have things their way, who expect others to service them, who can't take a position on anything, who suck up to others, who are afraid of new experiences, who overdress, who can't laugh at a flub, who bully, that sort of thing, don't have it together. Oh, yes, and who are intimidated by women like me... <g> |
