"He has no ill feeling toward persons"
Irrelevant, and certainly not assumed.
"He does identify a problem with the circumstances described that is high risk"
It is extremely insulting to identify people as high risk for misconduct merely because of their gender or sexual orientation. You don't say the possibility of misconduct is high risk for heterosexual males--but only for homosexuals and women. To suggest that these are more at risk to be unethical and immoral is prejudicial and insulting. To toss such matters off in such a glib way is moreover very off-putting.
"It is not necessary to involve people in this kind of serious harm and risk of harm, and I have yet to see you or yours provide a description of the benefits of forcing people to be involved in this manner."
Now you are being patronizing. If you were meaning this equally between all groups (i.e. NOBODY should get massages, medical treatment, or whatever, because EVERYBODY is at heart a likely crook and might breach the trust) then, well and fine. But you are only talking about two particular groups as being at risk of misconduct--namely, homosexuals and women. This is smug, elitist, and discriminatory--and nothing for you to speak proudly of. The human race has spilled too much damn blood in trying to eliminate this sort of crap for you to expect people to shrug it off with an, "oh well...boys will be boys".
"He is not prejudging individuals"
You are dividing humankind into groups of inferior and superior, and then claiming not to prejudge them. If women and homosexuals are NOT more likely to engage in misconduct, then why deny them services equally with heterosexual males? And if you think they ARE more likely to be unethical and to breach trust, then ON WHAT GROUNDS do you make that prejudicial determination???
You seem to be entirely unaware of how a woman must feel to be treated as a second-class human by virtue of her gender--that she is either weak or immoral, on that basis alone.
And you hide behind this "mojo" characterization as though this were some sort of cartoon fun we were having. Give your head a shake, man. |
