SI
SI
discoversearch

We've detected that you're using an ad content blocking browser plug-in or feature. Ads provide a critical source of revenue to the continued operation of Silicon Investor.  We ask that you disable ad blocking while on Silicon Investor in the best interests of our community.  If you are not using an ad blocker but are still receiving this message, make sure your browser's tracking protection is set to the 'standard' level.
Politics : Sharks in the Septic Tank

 Public ReplyPrvt ReplyMark as Last ReadFilePrevious 10Next 10PreviousNext  
To: Lane3 who wrote (76586)10/6/2003 1:55:20 PM
From: one_less  Read Replies (1) of 82486
 
"Not one woman reported a sexually-charged experience."

I could ask a dozen people I know and get the opposite report. There is a problem with this kind of reporting. It was addressed in the report I submitted. I will get to that, but let me speculate for a second.

When I did my quick internet study I came across some of the stuff you did about State licencing. I also found some stuff about towns that forbid massage therapists to go to the home of a cross gender client. The concern of the town is that they would not be able to monitor when the service was prostitutional vs legitimate therapy. Massage therapists of course dont like that kind of law because it restricts them in what is becoming a very competitive field. They are everywhere. So the tendency is toward a code of silence on the issue.

The report I submitted took this into account and asked people if they had ever been involved in sexual contact. The affirmative percentage was small. However, when asked if they knew of other therapists having been involved the percentage shot up to 70%. As you noted that doesn't tell us frequency or total raw numbers but it does say something about the willingness of people to disclose their personal involvement, which is unlikely.

I have mentioned before my amusement at watching a tv show. Don’t remember if it was Ricky Lake or Oprah or what but on stage were some studly men bragging about how often they scored. In the audience were a lot of people (women) sniping at them, telling them how disgusting they are, and how not one of them would ever give those jerks the time of day. The jerks on stage just smiled knowingly. The level of denial on this thread, compared to the real world, where people get turned on riding elevators or receiving a package from the UPS guys, is amusing.

Whether you can prove that no one is ever or rarely sexualized in a cross gender massage setting (your belief) or whether I can prove that it is quite common (my belief), is not the basis of the debate, in any event. Most people in the modern world would not even attribute harm to such a sexualized event so that even becomes a tangental issue that leads us nowhere.
Report TOU ViolationShare This Post
 Public ReplyPrvt ReplyMark as Last ReadFilePrevious 10Next 10PreviousNext