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To: abuelita who wrote (34989)7/14/2004 1:56:26 AM
From: abuelita  Read Replies (4) of 104167
 
oh boy ...

you do ever think that you've got everything
figured out and it's going to be perfect - just
like you always wanted it?

and you talk about what it's going to be like
and how much you're looking forward to that time
... when you're there.

and then ... you hear another perspective.
what he's expecting - anticipating what life'll
be like. and you know what? its diametrically
opposed to your vision.

what it boils down to is that nothing's going to
change. it'll be the same as it is now and YET
both he and you were thinking it was going to change.

now, how stupid is that?? really. think about it.
he's never pulled a weed and you've never caught a fish.
boy, how different things might have been if you'd
connected with someone of like interests. been able
to share what you enjoy most. some people are lucky
that way - they find that person. so if you don't
what do you do. carry on? make the best of it? or
say phuck it, i'd rather do it alone.

but, its just a vision after all, and so you say,
- do whatever you need to make you happy - i want
that for you. and he says the same and you both
go on together doing things separately. and both
of you are right and both of you are lonely.

oy!

some people say, the older you get, the easier it
gets.

bull shit.

not true.

nothing changes - you want the same things out
of life that you ever have wanted and you want
someone to share it with and if you don't find
that person - you compromise.

so. that's it.

compromise.

you spend your precious life compromising.

how sad is that?

and then there's all that other crap.
the dying.

it wasn't such a good one after all.
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