I may have been wrong in assuming that Grainne meant that what you see is what you get, banning-wise. I wish now I hadn't asked her, though the regret is mitigated by gladness to know that she wasn't influence by something not in Jewel's posts.
I would have preferred a reaction to this part of that post, I must say. It is at the heart of the mystery, to me, of your behavior.
And I've often wondered whether if you had ever talked to Poet's husband, and were more aware of the effect on her and him of that stalking, those threats, and understood that PTSD is a real thing, and that the victims of bullies really do suffer, have to go to doctors, and in this case to a lawyer, whether you would have continued to insist that as long as the lawsuit-threat of CH's enabled him to threaten her with posting "intimate" exchanges, and stalk her from SI to IHub, he should be treated with respect while doing it. |
