"The situation created is impossible. You must decide to never again include an SI link or put yourself at risk. That's exactly what one person has said they will do.
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How about just not posting posts many years old with Real NAMES in them? Pretty simple. Or is the situation "so impossible" that you simply must mine the thread for 7 year old information that compromises my privacy- even though I try not to post to you, and rarely post about you (see the bottom of this post for the two posts I could find in which I mentioned you. I'm sure you will think they are truly terrible posts, and they certainly justify the enormous number of posts you write about me, AND the fact that you chose to "update" everyone on my real name- even though it obviously really bothered you when someone did it to you.)
If you want me off SI, if that is what this hounding and harassment is about, fine- I am ready to go, because you have really scared me. Yes. You have become the stalker you told me CH was. If he went around telling everyone Poet's real name from posts that were many years old, and wrote nasty post after nasty post about her, I agree with you, he was as bad as you are. I never saw him do any of that, but if he was as bad as you are, then he was bad indeed.
Let me know what I need to do to stop the harassment. I will do it.
I offered to pay to have my personal information removed along with my alias and my membership, but apparently that is not possible. You have made this place a very hostile and horrible place for me. Congratulations. Now what do I need to do to get you to stop?
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1/5/2005 10:33:33 PM
From: ionesco
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Since LAZ cannot post here, it would be better not to discuss him. You put Grainne in a bit of a spot by bringing him up. I say this as a fellow culprit, having accidentally and unintentionally put her in a spot myself today.
To: jlallen who wrote (90030)
11/29/2004 4:18:22 PM
From: ionesco
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Gee
I figured he was banned more for his constant posts like this:
To: Grainne who wrote (88613) 11/18/2004 10:59:29 AM
From: Jewel_o_the_West Read Replies (2) of 90030
"This part of your post seems to not about the subject X is discussing, homosexuality, but sort of a veiled personal attack on X, and an attempt perhaps to rehash ancient uglinesses."
What ever grainne.... Here we go again. Perhaps you missed the veiled third party very personal snipe that X offered. Since I have seen them dozens and dozens of times, I find them to stand out like a like a sore thumb. She always uses a third party rube like you as a (usually quite willing) vehicle for this ploy. That is her way of plying very mean spirited and personal attacks while maintaining deniability (which by the way she doesn't do, she leaves that up to her willing rube). If that is your role here fine but don't expect me to role over for you.
Sheesh... guess I'll be joining laz soon. I have seen several sites disintegrate over this X-phenomenon ... I noticed that several posters tried to clue you in but you resisted.
All TOO transparent for those of us who have seen it so often. I will give you the benefit of doubt since you have been away for a while but you MIGHT want to listen to some others on this.
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I haven't posted to him, or about him- until this post, which still isn't about him, but IS about the kinds of posts I've seen. They have been nasty, and there has been nothing directed at him by me- although I do realize he takes my opinions about polite behavior as personal attacks, but they are not meant that way, and I am not responsible for the way he personalizes general remarks.. So, while I don't recall asking for anyone to be banned, I didn't think it was a terrible decision, considering his level of animosity. I wouldn't think it terrible if Grainne didn't ban him either. But as a constant target of this person, as well as a constant target of yourself (who I also, you will notice, almost never reply to) I think you and he and a few other people, are way over the line with how you treat me.
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