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Pastimes : Let's Talk About Our Feelings!!!
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To: Grainne who wrote (100866)4/10/2005 10:57:53 AM
From: Suma  Read Replies (2) of 108807
 
Excerpted from your post:

I'm not sure why you think Boy Scouts are too young to be gay. There is considerable evidence that sexuality is fixed by very early childhood, if not in uteri. Most gay children when interviewed report always feeling different. It is not a lifestyle choice--why on earth would anyone choose a lifestyle that leads to heightened rates of alcoholism and drug addiction, rejection by their families, and incidences of harassment and even deadly violence against them. Does this sound rational?

Atheism is a choice of belief systems. Pedophiles absolutely ruin the lives of the children they prey on. What they do is not only undesirable because we say it is. It is rape (and sometimes murder). How are these these things in any way morally equivalent? I don't understand at all.

My reply :

You certainly have more than a novitiates understanding that being gay is not a choice. Although most theologians would make it so. If anyone is watching SURVIVOR, a gay man on it described the harassment he had as a child when he was always left out. He is trying to prove himself on the show.

Having had students who were gay and also some who killed themselves I find it inexplicable to understand how anyone would think it was a choice.

Those religions that say they can cure homosexuality do not cure it. They help the person to repress who he is. In many instances .... more than a few.. I have met both women and men who have families who always knew that they were gay but who wanted children, and or were Catholic and afraid to do anything but the prescribed... Get Married and rear children... who after age forty or so were finally able to reveal their true idenity..

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When someone posts on these boards that being gay is a choice I think well then why can't we change the color of our eyes, or get rid of the gene that has a proclivity to cancer ... or diabetes... Everything is passed on genetically probably in uteri.
Someday they might be able to substantiate this scientifically..

One of my students wrote a play that was produced on TV.The ________ of the Golds..( I forget the first two lines.) It was about a family who had a gay son. When the married daughter was going to have a baby she got it tested and they found that the baby had that gene to be gay. So aborting the baby became the theme.

Now we have two issues... (it was a great play) the son who resented the fact that his sister and her husband looked down on what HE was.... and the abortion issue. Double edged sword..

I wish I could remember the full name but Jon Tolins was the author.
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