Lalit, don't let those who disagree with you or me or anyone else on this long and shiny gossamer connection dictate your reactions OR responses.
You see, friend, you can react from an emotional hooked place and in that arena, we all need to exhibit patience and wisdom. However,
a response is a deliberately chosen "reaction" after contemplation and consideration of alternatives AFTER the emotion has passed.
There are 3 males on this thread who deliberately continue to try to evoke IMMEDIATE EMOTIONAL REACTION on this and other threads, trying to get someone to "screw up and spill the beans" or "join their cause in a good ole boy full sweep" kind of teenage herd response.
You see, First, Frank Walter Peter Grandich with a daughter named for Daria Dolan, then a Marcos whoozit and then a undeclared "Howe Street PI" supposedly named du Plessis, all 3 of these personality exhibitions on this thread and elsewhere demonstrate in ugly, living technicolor, in all varieties of emotional hookin' spades, their manipulation both in words and in manipulation by threats, (which in du Plessis' case sometimes end up in lawsuits if 1 is t'believe that n/paper article!)
For someone who may or may not be saavy in the world of law, a lawsuit is nothing more than a formalized emotional manipulative WRITTEN THREAT of the highest order of print permitted in democracies.
One of the most well annotated tactics of emotional abusers in modern literature is the tactic known as isolation.
Therein lies the biggest weapon these 3 particular personages wield: They think they have succeeded in causing other thinking continuing to post individuals on this and other threads to be abandoned, or linked or cross accused or mis-identified, such as the current campaign to call you O/49r, or call me Lalit, or call me anything they can dream up, and call you anything they and others can dream up., ....Anything that might make others leave shun isolate or join in the ridicule join the "perceived" majority, or whatever the group definition of belonging or "safety of numbers" is!
Please contemplate this post, thoroughly.
Regards, O/49r |