Sadly, your desire to discuss other posters is really really rude. It's fine to disagree about ideas, but to examine other posters, basically in front of them, pretending they aren't there, or hoping they are, so they can read your little expose of them, with someone else? Very low. Just very very disagreeable. I ignored you for a very long time because of this- and I guess I'll do it again. It's not your ideas, though (although no doubt you will believe it is) it's your rudeness, which is just not something one should tolerate in a social situation (imo).
You obviously do not want to communicate. You want to put ideas out there that you know people different from you in perspective will disagree with, and then you want to go after them personally for not agreeing with you. That is not dicussion; that is a set up. It is hostile, and it is not productive. It is in fact destructive to communication. That's sad. |