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Biotech / Medical : Share your aches,pains,experiences,joys and cures.

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To: Ken Adams who wrote (829)5/27/2007 11:58:23 AM
From: Suma   of 1564
 
Ken that is so sad a post because I went through similar experiences with my parents... Although Dad was in Hospice care and in my Will I a leaving money to Hospice. They are wonderful.

However if I were an actress and required to cry all I would have to do is imagine my mother who was stone deaf, in a wheel chair sitting in the dining room on Christmas Day all alone
as no one wanted to sit with her. It was futile as she could not hear what anyone said... and she did not want to come to my home as it was such an effort to get her... and then the wheel chair in the car...

Later I put her in a private home with a LPN who only had her as a patient. She did her hair, nails, toenails and dressed her up. I went to see her every other day. She was not happy there as it was lonely but she died after about two month.

The day before she passed she was imagining all her friends at bridge club... and came into the living area waving and saying hello to all of them. They all were gone...

She received a lot of diapering and care from this woman who took one patient into her home at a time to nurse them.

Let's hope none of us has to resort of an extended life of
nursing homes and solitude.
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