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Politics : Evolution

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To: Greg or e who wrote (11724)12/31/2010 1:20:13 PM
From: Jacques Chitte  Read Replies (3) of 69300
 
I dug back through the thread to find the relevant reference.
Message 27030402

The not-quite-question:

>So your wife talks to dead people and they told her that there was someone who had cancer in your family?<

Remove the question mark, and I notice two things: the sentence structure is not interrogative, and the pejorative "so" prefaces the statement. Even with a question mark, the effect is disbelieving, belittling ... snide. Sarcastic.

I agree to some extent that written communication does not capture body language and intonation. The way words are combined takes on the force of intonation. If you want to ask a question that is recognizable as such ... and not instantly red-flagged as an almost-plausibly-deniable slur, I would be so bold as to state that you need to use correct interrogative syntax.

I was startled to see your and Brumar's nonquestions follow identical form: question mark tacked onto a declarative sentence prefaced by pejorative fillword. To me, the implied contempt is obvious, and I don't feel like giving into the tiny little dominance game contained in the format. I strongly counsel - let your questions be actual questions. Jmo.
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