was at friend's office (he himself in turn was camped out in his friends office of perhaps 25 folks) last week. the usually well-dressed assistant of the office (not of my friend who is otherwise not associated with the businesses there, just camping) @ age perhaps 25 something was dressed to kill without slightest mercy, in light beige and too-short dress that was effectively translucent when backlit.
as she walked in the away direction into the light, she (either deliberately or in my imagination deliberately) adjusted her dress with both hands reaching back. watching her sashaying across the marble many thoughts intruded in my mind, and #1 being, "this is just no longer fair".
when i was introduced by pal as "this is j, a naughty boy", her response was a broad smile and, "oh you too are a naughty boy"
whenever the boyz sit down to gather, two of many topics that regularly arise are (i) office mates, and (ii) airline / hotel / financial industry girls, which would indicate a particular state of social is.
i know folks who reject winsome looking lady job applicants recommended by friends simply because the ladies are winsome, as "i do not need the complications in my life right at this moment".
how many folks are truly able to withstand the testing over a long enough time?
mentioned earlier, when my daughter was 8 months young, her reaction to stranger male who picks her up was to grab both of his ears and do a head butt, feeling no pain but knocking the stranger unexpectedly silly.
now young jack's response to stranger youngish female who picks him up is to grab her by the neck and hump her, leaving the counter party stranger in a state of unexpectedness.
jack is hard-wired from the get go, latest being mother n daughter team who are my mom-in-law's piano student. |