SI
SI
discoversearch

We've detected that you're using an ad content blocking browser plug-in or feature. Ads provide a critical source of revenue to the continued operation of Silicon Investor.  We ask that you disable ad blocking while on Silicon Investor in the best interests of our community.  If you are not using an ad blocker but are still receiving this message, make sure your browser's tracking protection is set to the 'standard' level.
Politics : Formerly About Advanced Micro Devices

 Public ReplyPrvt ReplyMark as Last ReadFilePrevious 10Next 10PreviousNext  
To: koan who wrote (780401)4/17/2014 4:27:28 PM
From: one_less  Read Replies (1) of 1578933
 
Actually that isn't my thesis but I admit it is a difficult call. What I said was men do that to themselves.

>>>Emasculated men have suppressed these qualities in themselves. Emasculation is loss of masculinity and personal power. The claim some people like to make is that emasculation of manhood is caused by women but that isn’t true. It is only possible for a man to do that to himself.<<<

It is a hard call because I see boys and men who lack enough control in their lives to make any concerted advocacy for their own masculinity. A strong positive male influence is absent in the lives of many boys, so boys are more likely to form their identities based on a strong female role models who often have a negative perspective on men. In addition, you won't find studies or disciplines in society which endorse the positive aspects of male masculinity (except under the purview of women's studies or feminist institutions, which is more than a little suspect). Masculinity is being redefined and co opted by groups that have historically viewed manhood as loathsome. In the process roles and behaviors historically viewed as normal boy behavior is viewed as unacceptable and boys acting more feminine is encouraged. The end result is people like you who are old white guys unable to view that identity in a positive light (emasculated: identity conflict and loss of personal power), or females who are unable to have a complimentary relationship with a male and end up trying to over compensate by developing a grotesquely aggressive attitude in the world.
Report TOU ViolationShare This Post
 Public ReplyPrvt ReplyMark as Last ReadFilePrevious 10Next 10PreviousNext