Heldman's accusations about Bolling weren't exactly hair raising. She claimed he asked her out to dinner, invited her to see some sports jerseys, called her pretty on the air, had funny nicknames for her, disagreed with her, and told a joke about sex in front of her. For real. This is the level of "harassment" that causes a man to lose his job and everything he holds dear these days. With apparently no awareness of how a man's family might view his very public fall from grace, Heldman decided to gloat about her "victory" for all to see.