Well, Jane, are you homosexual? Are you straight? If you are straight, did you have any of those very typical small homosexual experimentations during puberty which are quite common? If so, do you still feel guilty about them? Were you ever molested or abused in some way? Were your parents healthy and kind and nurturing? I really get the idea that some of your positions have some great personal trauma hidden behind them, and that you might be projecting that on things where it is not logical to do so.
Every time you post, I have to say I am just fascinated by who sits behind the keyboard typing those words of yours. As Carol asked, are you a woman, or are you a man? I don't get any clear picture, but I would love to understand you better. I think you are VERY intelligent.
I hope you don't think my questions are too forward or rude or anything--that is not my intention, and I apologize if you take them that way. I am just so intrigued by you.
And since you are asking some of the same questions of Ignacio, I guess I am losing my inhibitions about asking them of you.
Incidentally, public showers at gyms and swimming pools are filled with people most of the time. There is absolutely no privacy, which is probably quite intentional. There is almost no possibility of being molested there. You have a MUCH higher possibility of being molested in your own home, by your own family and their friends.
Christine |
