Ignacio, being cocky may be well within your limits, but that attitude will not make you feel happy here. And certainly you do not have the right to tell me what to do or think or say.
I believe it was about a year ago that your big attitude made such a mess of this thread. I had very serious issues weighing on my mind back then, and took several months off, away from SI. But rereading the thread you can see that this was a very unpleasant place. I may have said something to Jill at some point, but it would have had to be a very long time ago, and honestly I don't remember it now. I was very traumatized by something else that preoccupied me for quite some time last winter and spring.
I think that you should really keep in mind that I have made an effort to welcome you back here, as have others who were here then and probably didn't really have good memories of that time because of your impact on the thread. In fact, there has been a real effort in general around here to mend frayed or broken relationships and get along better. Most of the time it is better to put things in the past aside and go on with new positive energy, and I am sure this is one of those times. You alienated so many people that any of them could have legitimately gone to Jill, but I am not saying that anyone in particular did that. And I would never go to Jill in the future, since it does not solve anything and is not a constructive way to resolve conflicts.
I still hope you will post here and feel comfortable and you are certainly welcome, as is everyone else, but I have no intention in getting into a fight with you. I really hope you can just hang out here like the rest of us do, Ignacio. It is really up to you. But if you are going to accuse and insult me I will just totally ignore you.
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