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Pastimes : Let's Talk About Our Feelings!!!
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To: Krowbar who wrote (19744)4/4/1998 3:23:00 PM
From: Grainne  Read Replies (1) of 108807
 
Del, I cannot answer your question about my transsexual friend who became a lesbian, in the sense of whether she enjoys being the receptive partner in dildo play. I lost touch with her soon after her surgery. I am not sure I expressed her feelings exactly correctly, before, however. She perceived being the penetrator in a sexual situation as violent, as I recall, because she did not feel inside like a male. I am pretty sure she did not feel like it was an act of murder or anything, just a role which was too aggressively masculine for her to play. I guess you need to remember that she felt like a woman even when she was still a man.

It is really hard to explain someone else's feelings, even though she discussed them with me at length, because it was a long time ago, and I don't know if, after the intervening experiences she has had, she would even feel the same way.
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