God said it is wrong in His written word which he has given us. I only repeat it. You are not accountable to me for anything, only God and His instructions which have been rejected by many. God has said homosexuality and lesbianism are wrong and those that practice them will not enter the kingdom of heaven, not me. I am just relaying the message and you and C are rejecting it.
Even Paul himself did not always regard himself as the inerrant voice of God. He appealed, especially in Romans chapter 1, to common sense and belief about things (in Romans 1 his argument is based on "natural theology" -- the revelation of God in nature). When it came to offering advice on sex, Paul sometimes equivocated! In Paul's other teachings about sexuality, he claimed not to have a word of the lord, but only an opinion of a "trustworthy" man (1 Corinthians 7:25). If we are serious about Paul's theology of human sin, we can not believe that any human being has a perfect vision or teaching that comes solely from the ultimate, holy, perfect, infinite divine mind. It is all tainted with some degree of short-sightedness and selfishness. We see through a glass darkly (1 Cor. 13). We have this treasure in earthen vessels (2 Cor. 4:7). We do not have an absolute, infallible word from God in the Pauline, or the writings of Christian disciples; instead, we have the Spirit represented in the doctrines of human beings. Any attempt to make Christ a Law for human beings is to short-change the Gospel, and it only kills the spirit we were sent to offer. Martin Luther was the one who said it best: "woe to anyone who would make Christ a Law for us!"
Paul's dedication to the cause of the Gospel of "faith, not works" (of "internal, not external, purity") is precisely the Gospel which we believe to be Christ's and God's. However, liberal Christians wish to point out that Paul seems to contradict himself if he does indeed teach that all forms of homosexuality are "internal" sins of rebellion against God. What is the rationale for saying so? Biology? If the argument comes down to this: that the biology of creation prescribes the limit of sexuality and defines rebellion against God arbitrarily, then we have to prescribe a works-righteousness which claims that certain external behaviors (so called-"sins") prevent the human being from any reconciliation to God. But this is manifestly inconsistent with the gospel of Jesus, who has pointed us away from external form and towards the content of the heart.
Today, our common sense and belief about things is different. We do not automatically assume that homosexual love is depraved, sad, or rebellious at its heart. We know comparatively well-adjusted homosexuals (who must always struggle against a society which constantly condemns them in order to feel self-righteous). A committed homosexual love seems, to us, to be as pure in heart as any heterosexual love. And that is, in fact, acknowledged by many conservative ministers who nonetheless teach against homosexuality. Their basis? A purely arbitrary rule laid down by God in scripture and biology, which amounts to saying that God sees homosexuality as an "abomination".
How we understand sin as Christians is of fundamental importance. The real burden of this argument has been to demonstrate that Jesus provides a new way of understanding sin as internal defilement, as opposed to external. We have argued that Christianity teaches that to the extent that any given human relationship is based upon something other than love, it is sinful; to the extent that we love, we do not sin. But the world has not understood sin in this way. The world has understood sin as the Pharisees did, as "eating with unwashed hands", that is, sins are thought to be certain actions which are automatically rejected by God and defiling. In our world, "eating with unwashed hands" is comitting those kinds of victimless, external "sins", which involve consumption, touching ourselves and others, ways of standing, sitting, ways of dressing, grooming oneself, having sex and so on. But the true test of sin is, does the action proceed from a "defiled heart"? Does it fit the pattern of what Jesus identified as sin? does it have a victim, does it have a spiritual violence in its intentions? In human action, if it is done from a spirit that does violence, it is sin.
This is fundamental to Christian ethics: everything is permitted... but not all things build up (1 Cor. 6:12). It is "spiritual violence" when our actions harm others and cause them to stumble... and it is "spiritual violence" when what is in a person's heart harms that person's relationships to the neighbor and God. Paul argues strenuously against fornication, but he acknowledges that it is not the things themselves which have been prohibited, but the intentions of our hearts in doing the things. It is the heart, not the action, which brings about our destruction (Romans 14:14). This is true, just as it is the spirit of the proclamation, not the letter, which we preach (2 Cor. 3:6).
Paul, at his best, preaches true freedom of conscience in matters of sin. Paul is at his best when he preaches about the comprehensive grace of God, and at his most contradictory when he makes lists of things which are in themselves sins. He can't avoid this contradiction: he preaches freedom in Christ, he preaches the ethic that all is permitted but not all builds up, that Christ breaks the yoke of the Law, but he occasionally slips and himself proscribes law, proving his own principle that all humanity sins and falls short of the glory of God. The paradoxes and difficulties of this ambiguous and very complex ethic of grace and love of neighbor, the need to build up and not destroy relationships, is our legacy from Paul. We have to love each other. This is the first calling. The only calling. The meaning of the cross. Our scandalized consciences, our perceptions of each others sins, are our own greatest stumbling blocks to truly inheriting the kingdom of God. |