Del, there is something about Christmas that brings out a lot of feelings. People want to wish their families, friends and acquaintances goodwill and best wishes for the coming year. At the same time, as you pointed out with the horrible news that someone in your small town blew his face off, it is an emotional pressure cooker for those of us who are really sad or lacking focus at the moment, or have horrible childhood memories of the holidays, or have just gone through horrendous loss or are having their first Christmas without someone who was very dear to them.
I think a lot of people are really lonely, and seeing all the bustle and happiness around them just accentuates that. And for those of us who are Jewish or pagan or atheist or Buddhist or (this is a long list of other religions, but I'm sure you get the point) for some other reason don't throw ourselves into this holiday with as much enthusiasm as those who are celebrating it as the birth of Christ, we all need something to do with ourselves while the whole Western world suddenly grinds almost to a halt for a day. Writing here, debating the future of mankind and keeping each other company in a way, seems like a very positive use of this time.
I enjoyed my virtual hug from you, and hugged Briana on your behalf. Maybe next year you can hug a few of the guys too. Everyone needs hugs, the more the better, and at least where I live there is no sexual connotation attached to them anymore.
But maybe this isn't a trick you should try just yet in Texas!
I have really enjoyed your contributions here, and am glad you didn't decide it was too yucky to participate!!
Christine |
