Wallstreeter,
In other words, people only truly fall out of love because of greed or lust? No offense, but that is completely untrue. People can fall very deeply in love, and and can also fall out of love for many different reasons.
People are first and formost, human beings who come equipped with their own personalities, neeeds, hang ups, desires, and a whole host
personality traits. Just because two people in their twenties fall deeply in love, doesnt mean that they will grow spiritually, emotionally, or intellectually at the same rate. many people grow into completely different people than they were in their younger days.
This is not good or bad, just the way things are. there ar no guarantees that these people will be compataible or have the same feelings 5, 10, or 20 years down the road.
To assume that you will still feel the same is a very large assumption
that may or may not come true.
You also continually make an assumption that sexuality is a thing to be avoided outside of the confines of marriage. I also disagree with that very strongly. Human sexuality is a wonderful and beautiful thing that can be practiced outside of the realm of marriage, as long as it is done so responsibly between two adults. If you feel that virginity gives you an additional aspect to your spirituality, I think that is great. many p[eople have felt that way throughout the ages. However, that doesnt mean that people who arent virgins cant be spiritual and that sexuality before marriage is a "bad thing".
Mark |
