If someone doesnt want to listen, that is obviously their right also. As long as everyone respects each others rights, and doesnt try to force an opinion on someone, then there is no reason that enmity should occur, IMO.
Yes, exactly it is their right or choice if you will. Forcing is something I have tryed to do at times, but God's word says I can plant, I can water, but God gives the increase.
( A good example, my wife is an avid (or rabid )gg Iris grower. She plants and transplants and fertilizes and waters and talks to and fusses over her plants all the time.....yet when an Iris appears that once a year, it is amazing to her how beautiful it is, she just can't believe it. ) I wish I had her patience, cause i know all is well with the world when I look out the window and see dirt and elbows flying every which a way as she fusses over those Irises. And the wonderment is this: These things only bloom once a year. The rest of the year they are ugly green sticks. But if one does not bloom this year will she dig it up and toss it?? Or quit watering it? OH NOOOOOOO........she will transplant it to a different part of the yard or trim and refertilize or water less or more, fuss even more than usual, but she will not destroy it cause it did not please her. It is merely being an Iris. (true story, I have watched it)
WOW.
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